Once in a while a person must take a "Thoreau" look at themselves. So here are a few thoughts to consider:
“As a single footstep will not make a path on the earth, so a single thought will not make a pathway in the mind. To make a deep physical path, we walk again and again. To make a deep mental path, we must think over and over the kind of thoughts we wish to dominate our lives.” -Henry David Thoreau
“The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.” -Henry David Thoreau
“What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are tiny matters compared to what lives within us.” -Henry David Thoreau
I am no Dave Ramsey but I have learned a little from some of my own mistakes. As an 80s graduate of the Father Guido Sarducci Five Minute University, I was highly sought after for low-level retail jobs at first. But when they dried up, I was forced to go back to school and get an additional degree in communications. Now I would still have a low-level retail job with with student loan debit to go along with it. Facing an uphill battle, I did the smart thing and started a family.